Meet Your Mistress

Whether you are a novice, a seasoned submissive, a well trained slave or just curious, welcome to my digital dungeon! I am Mistress Lilith, a professional Dominatrix, here to provide thrill-seekers safe and exhilarating experiences in the realm of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, Masochism).

Many subs and slaves ask Me about how I got into BDSM and how long I have been practicing it. I have always felt and acknowledged My power and dominance, have always felt the Divine Feminine flow within Me, knowing in My core that I had the leadership qualities, the care and integrity befitting a true dominant. Almost all my vanilla relationships naturally became FLR (female led relationships). My interest in BDSM began to grow, so I read and read as much as I could about it. BDSM is not about pain, being a Mistress is not about being cruel. Dominance is about respect, care, trust and safety. It is about being a safe guide for others to step outside their comfort zone and reach their potential, in whatever shape or form that might be. 

It all really started when 15 years ago a guy I was dating asked if I’d dominate him. I still can’t get over that evening, and the sense of exhilaration I felt from being entrusted with all the power. The absolute thrill I got from watching him completely submit to Me was as strange to Me (as a woman in a typical patriarchal society) as it was mind-blowing. It immediately felt like I finally stepped into My rightful shoes, that I had met My true Self for an evening. In fact I am not sure who enjoyed the evening more, him or I! There was no escaping the pull after that, I was hooked! There is no denying it – dominance and sadism run in My veins.

Since that baptism of fire, I have honed My craft over the years for the safe enjoyment of My slaves and Myself. With a keen understanding of gender, human sexuality, physiology and psychology, I marry My knowledge with My knowhow to bring you the ultimate experience of letting go.

What kind of Mistress am I?

I am a divine Goddess, who expects to be worshipped and obeyed. I can be a teasing temptress, sensual and nurturing, or decidedly wicked and sadistic. Strict and demanding, merciful or punishing, I get such a thrill from your trust and submission to Me!

I have a very particular fetish, something called hyphephilia: pleasure derived from touching different textures. And so, I love wearing all kinds of kinky fabrics, like fishnet, pvc, leather-feel, tulle, latex etc. I love the texture of the tassels on My whips, the spikes on My shoes and slave collar. It is also why I get such a kick from touching bodies; hair and the different textures of skin in different places, especially the raised marks when I am done caning, whipping or spanking!

I take most pleasure from being creative, predicament bondage being one of my favourite wicked games. 

But it is Tease and Denial that makes the top of the list for me. Watching you wriggle and writhe just tickles Me pink, I highly enjoy teasing you till it hurts and then denying you pleasure no matter how much you beg. So sadistically cruel and humiliating for you, and yet such a powerful feeling for me. Nothing makes Me happier than having you entertain My dark side and watch you obey, please Me and do My bidding.